Spotting the signs of elder abuse
Written and accurate as at: Feb 11, 2026 Current Stats & Facts
While many of us would rather not think about it, elder abuse is an ugly reality in Australia. According to the National Elder Abuse Prevalence Study, released in December 2021, around one in six older Australians experience some form of abuse each year.
Mistreatment of older people can happen in private homes, in the community, and most notoriously in care settings. And because it often takes place behind closed doors, it can be easy to overlook or ignore. But recognising the signs early on can make a real difference to the safety and dignity of some of society’s most vulnerable members.
What does elder abuse look like?
Elder abuse can take different forms, some of them more subtle than others. Yes, physical harm is one possibility, but many cases involve mistreatment of an emotional, psychological or financial nature.
And while active behaviours, like intimidation and manipulation, obviously demand attention, we shouldn’t forget that a lack of action can also amount to harm. Failing to provide care when it’s clearly needed, ignoring medical needs, allowing living conditions to deteriorate – these can all be cause for concern.
Here are a few signs to watch out for:
- Unexplained injuries or bruises
- Noticeable changes in mood
- Reluctance to speak freely, especially around a particular person
- Someone else routinely speaking on their behalf when they previously spoke for themselves
- Untreated medical issues or signs of neglect
- Sudden isolation from friends, neighbours or community life
- A carer or family member withholding mail or controlling access to phones and visitors
Keep in mind that changes in behaviour can often be a product of aging or illness, not necessarily mistreatment by another person or people. But when several signs appear together, or when they represent a sharp break from how someone used to be, it might be worth looking a little closer.
Red flags around money and decision-making
Many older Australians are vulnerable not just because of age-related changes in health and cognition, but because of the assets they’ve built up over a lifetime. This accumulated wealth – think savings, property and investments – can make them targets for financial exploitation by family members, carers and others in positions of trust.
Warning signs of financial elder abuse include sudden or unexplained changes in their finances like large cash withdrawals, new names added to accounts, or unfamiliar people suddenly involved in decision-making.
You should also watch for possessions going missing, will or property title changes that don’t reflect a freely made decision, and financial stress where there shouldn’t be any (in other words, not having enough money for basics despite adequate income).
What to do if you’re concerned
If you suspect an older person you know is experiencing abuse, the first step is to assess the immediate risk. In emergencies, it’s best to call 000.
In less urgent circumstances, a private chat might be appreciated. Ask open, non-judgmental questions about what’s been happening and how they’re feeling. Listen carefully and try to detect any signs that they feel afraid, controlled or unsupported.
Depending on the situation, there may be community groups or legal organisations that can help. For free, confidential information, you can also call the National Elder Abuse Helpline, which will connect you with the relevant service in your state or territory.